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Sample letter No. 03 · Family M.

What a letter looks like when it arrives. Family M. is made up: three siblings in Hamburg, Cologne and Berlin. The questions are real, they are in the question pool as they stand. The photos are real too: Richard's, from before So tell us existed.

Letter from
Family M.

Letter No. 03 · Sent on Sunday, 7 June 2026

03SO
TELL US

Three people, five questions. One question skipped (that's fine), two voice notes, three photos.

01

What was harder than expected this week – and what was easier?

Bea· Hamburg, on Saturday

Harder: the washing machine, three floors, no lift. Easier: saying goodbye to the old flat. I thought I'd cry handing over the keys. I didn't. Then in the evening I sat on the floor of the new kitchen between boxes, because there wasn't a chair yet.

Jonas· Cologne, on the go

Harder: two weeks without the car, the garage is waiting for a part. Easier: cycling to work. I'm in no hurry to get the car back.

▶Voice · 0:08

Klara· Berlin

Harder: tying my shoes. In the sixth month the bump is suddenly in the way. Easier: taking the seat when someone offers it on the train. I take it now.

02

What have you learned recently that you didn't know before?

Klara· Berlin

That you can do a pottery course in your sixth month. You just don't get as close to the wheel. The first bowl is crooked and sits on the table anyway.

Bea· Hamburg, on the balcony

That the neighbours one floor down have lived there for 31 years. They helped with the sofa and then, over a glass of wine, told me who lived here before us.

▶Voice · 0:21

Jonas· Cologne

Jonas skipped this question.

03

Where did you feel comfortable this week?

Jonas· Cologne, on Thursday

The beer garden round the corner, after the first week on the bike. The dachshund at the next table was there when I arrived and still there when I left.

A dachshund under a beer-garden table

Beer-garden dachshund. Regular as the schnitzel.

Bea· Hamburg

On the new balcony. It looks out on a building site, but the sun comes in the morning.

Klara· Berlin

In a waiting room, oddly. Twenty minutes in which nobody wanted anything from me.

04

What was the highlight of your week – in exactly one sentence?

Bea· Stockholm, on Sunday

The last evening before the move, at Lena's in Stockholm, sunset at half past ten.

Sunset over the water in Stockholm

Stockholm. The last good May sunset.

Klara· Berlin

Mila calls the crooked bowl “mum’s bowl” and won’t eat from anything else.

Jonas· Lake Traunsee

Half marathon at Lake Traunsee on Sunday, start at six, the photo is from before.

Runners at the start of a half marathon at Lake Traunsee before sunrise

Traunsee half marathon. Before sunrise. Before the pain.

05

Who or what did you miss this week?

Klara· Berlin

My back from six months ago.

Jonas· Cologne

The car, for exactly one trip: Ikea.

Bea· Hamburg

The old bakery. The new one doesn't do cinnamon buns. But the woman behind the counter already knows my name.

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Next letter: Sunday, 21 June

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